Understanding Our Actions and Their Outcomes
Every day, we perform countless actions. While we have control over whether our actions are good or bad, the outcomes of those actions often lie beyond our control.
For instance, imagine preparing rigorously for an exam six months in advance, putting in all your effort to secure excellent marks. On the exam day, you face unexpected questions requiring out-of-the-box thinking. Despite doing your best, when the results are announced, your score is lower than expected because the teacher valued reflective answers more.
Similarly, consider starting a new job where you thrive in a positive work environment, earning recognition from clients and colleagues. You envision a long career there, only to face unexpected layoffs due to company budget cuts, forcing you to seek new employment.
Both examples highlight how our efforts may be commendable, but the results may not align with our expectations.
The Pain of Resisting Reality
When life doesn’t go as planned, we often ask, “Why me?” or “Do I deserve this?” Such questions lead to pain, resentment, and a tendency to blame external factors like people, circumstances, or rules for our struggles.
This cycle of resistance only deepens our anguish, as we struggle to accept outcomes beyond our control.
The Wisdom of the Shabad
A profound shabad from Guru Granth Sahib Ji offers solace during such moments:
“Kath ki putri kaha kare bapuri khilavanharo jaane. Jaisa bhek karave bazigar teso hi saaj aane” (SGGS, Ang 206)
“What can the poor wooden puppet do? The Master Puppeteer knows everything. As the Puppeteer dresses the puppet, so is the role the puppet plays.”
This shabad beautifully reminds us that life is like a play, and we are the puppets controlled by a Master Puppeteer. Our role is to act in the moment, not to control the entire script.
The Power of Accepting Hukam
Hukam, in Sikh philosophy, refers to the divine will or command. When we resist hukam, we invite pain and resentment into our lives. Instead, trusting hukam allows us to accept that every situation, whether good or bad, is part of a larger plan beyond our comprehension.
By embracing hukam, we free ourselves from the cycle of blame and dissatisfaction. Acceptance brings inner peace and helps us navigate life’s challenges with faith and resilience.
Shifting Our Perspective
Next time life throws challenges your way, remind yourself that your understanding of events is limited. Trust that there is a bigger picture you cannot yet see. Resisting hukam leads to suffering, but accepting it brings harmony to your mind and soul.
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